3 Aisi kahani Steve Jobs ki jisse unki jindgi badal gayi
3 Aisi kahani Steve Jobs
ki jisse unki jindgi badal gayi
Aaj hum
duniya ke Top Buisnessman mai se ek Steve Jobs se mil vaahenge. Jinhe mobile
phone ke bazaar ke baadshah bhi kah sakte hai. Steve Jobs (Apple, Next aur
Pixar Animation company) ke CEO aur Co-Founder hai!
Mai aaj
aap logo ke saath, duniya ke sabse badi University mai Price Distribution
Function mein shaamil huye hai. Yah mere liye garv ki baat hai. Maine college
paas nahi kiya. Sach to yah hai ki Graduation ke sabse kareeb mai aaj aaya hun.
Aaj main tumhe apne jeevan ki sabse mahatvpoorn teen kahaniyaan bata raha hoon
aur jyaada kuch nahi.
Pahli Kahani Zindagi Ki
Choti Choti Ghatnaaye Jodne Aur Samajhane Ke Baare Mein Hai
Maine
pahle 6 mahine ke baad Read College chhod diya, lekin phir bhi college mein
padta raha aur 17 mahino tak, jiske baad maine sach mai hi college jaana chhod
diya. Savaal ye hai ki maine college kyu chhoda?
Iski
shuruaat mere janm se pahle hui thi. Meri janm dene vaali maa ek unmarried
college student thi, aur ve mujhe godh dene ka faisla kiya. Vah yah chaahti thi
ki mujhe padhe likhe log godh le. Isi vajah se ek vakeel aur uski patni ne
mujhe godh liya. Lekin jab mera janm hua, us parivaar ne last moment par mujhe
thukra diya kyo ki unhone socha tha ki beti hogi.
Us
samay mere maata – pita intjaar karte rahe, der raat ke beech ek phone kiya :
“Na jaane kaise, humme ladka hua hai. Aap use godh lena chaahte hain?” Unhonne
kaha: “Bilkul!” mere janm dene vaali maa ko baad mein pata chala ki meri hone
vaali maa college kabhi nahi gayi thi, aur na hi mere pita school gaye the.
Meri maa ne last time pe godh lene ke document par signature karne se inkaar
kar diya. Vah keval kuch hi mahine baad maan gayi jab mere maata pita ne vaada
kiya ki mujhe kisi din bade school mein bheja jaega.
Aur
aakhir 17 saal baad, main college mein padhne gaya. Lekin maine anjaane mein ek
aisa college chuna jo Stanford University jitna mahnga tha, jiski fees bharne
mein mere maata pita ki bachat kamayi sab kuch lag gayi. 6 mahine baad, mujhe
isme kuch kaam ka nahi dikha. Jindgi mein mujhe kya karna hai iska mujhe bilkul
bhi andaaja nahi tha. uske upar mujhe yah bhi maaloom nahi tha ki ye college
kee padhai kis tarah is samasya ka hal niklane mein madad kar sakti hai.
Aur
idhar main apne maata-pita ki jindgi bhar ki bachat kamayi kharch kar raha tha.
Maine, is vishvaas aur bharose par ki jindagi sab sambhal legi, college chhod
diya. Us samay main apne decision se kaafi dara hua tha, par aaj sochta hun to
pata chalta hai ki vo meri jindgi ka sabse achcha faisla saabit hua.
Sab
kuch itna majedaar nahi tha. Mere pass rahne ke liye room nahi tha to main ek
dost ke room mai pharsh pe sota tha. Mai kamaane ke liye coke bottle vaapas
karne ka kaam karta tha, Jiske badle me mujhe $5 milte the aur us paise se
khaana kharedta tha, aur pure week mein ek achcha kahna kahne ke liye main har
sunday raat ko Hari Krishan Mandir 7 meel chal kar jaata tha. Mujhe yah sab achcha
lagta tha aur jo bhi maine apni dil ki baat sun kar kiya karta tha aur paaya,
vah sab baad mein mere liye amuly saabit hua.
Us
samay Read college mein shaayad desh ka sabse achcha kaligrafi anudeshk uplabdh
tha. Parisar ke har postar, har daraaj par har ek star par Beautifully se
kaligrafi ki gayi thi kyo ki maine college chhod diya tha aur main sabhi
subjects ki class nahi le sakta tha, isliye maine kaligrafi sikhne ka phaisala
kiya maine serif aur saan serif akshar rachna aur alag alag akshro ke beech
duri ki maatra ke baare mein sikha, maine sikha ki kaise mahaan akshar rachna
mahaan banaati hai. Vah sundar aur histroic tha.
Iss
mein se kisi ka bhi mere jeevan me achcha prayog hone ki mujhe ummeed nahi thi.
Lekin 10 saal baad, jab hum pahle Macintosh computer bana rahe the, yah sab
mujhe yaad aaya aur humne ise Mac ke design mai istemaal kiya aur vo sundar
akshar racha gaya tha agar maine yeh sab nhi sikha hota, to Mac Computer mai
Diversified typography aur Parallel typography ki system kabhi nahi hoti. Aur
window ne Mac ki sirf nakal ki, isliye koi aur Personal Computer mein vah hona
uski koi sambhavna nahi. Agar main kabhi college nahi chhodta, to mai kabhi kaligrafi
class mei nahi jaata, aur shayad Personal Computers mai sundar akshar rachana
ka prayog nahi hota, jo ab ho raha hai.
Meri Dusri Kahani Hai
Pyar Aur Nuksaan Ke Baare Mein
Main bhut lucky tha - Mujhe jo karna pasand tha vah mujhe jeevan mein bahut pahle mila. Jab mai 20 saal ka tha, Woz aur maine mere maata pita ke gairej mein Apple company shuru ki humne bahut mehnat ki, aur 10 saal mein Apple ek gairej mein hum dono se le kar, ek 2 Arab dollar ki 4000 se jada workers vaali company ho gayi thi humne sirf ek saal pahle hamari behtreen rachna - Macintosh - jaari ki thi, aur main tabhi 30 saal ka hua tha, aur phir mujhe nikaal diya gaya. jo company maine shuru ki hai, us company se mujhe kaise nikala ja sakate hai? khair, jaise Apple badhi humne kisi aise ko kaam par rakha jo maine socha tha ki mere saath company ko chalane ke liye bahut brilliant tha, aur laagbhag pahle saal ke liye to sabkuch achcha raha. Lekin phir future mai hamare sochne ka anumaan alag hone laga aur last me hum mein jhagda ho gaya. jab hum mein jhagda hua, hamare nideshak mandal ne uska saath diya. Aise 30 saal ki uamr mein mai bahar nikala gaya tha. Aur bahut hi saarvjanik roop se baahar nikala gaya tha. Jis pe mere pure jeevan ka dhyaan kendrit tha vah chala gaya tha, aur yah vinaashkaari tha.
Kuch
mahinon ke liye mujhe sach mein nahi pata tha ke mujhe kya karna chahiye. Main
David Packard and Bob Noyce se mila aur mere itne bure apyash ke liye maafi
maangi mere liye ek bahut badi hi naakaami thi, aur maine to vaha se bhaagne ka
bhi vichaar bana liya tha lekin kuch baaten dheere dheere mujhe samajh aane
lagi - maine jo kaam kiya tha us se mujhe abhi bhi lagaav tha.
Apple
mein hui ghatnaon se vah ek baat nahi badli thi. Mujhe asveekaar kiya tha,
lekin main abhi bhi usi baat se pyar karta tha aur isliye maine phir se
shuruaat karne ka phaisala kiya.
Maine
yah to nahi dekha tha, lekin pata chala ki Apple se nikaal diya jaana yah mere
liye sabse achchi baat thi naye kaam ke halkepan ne saphal hone ke bhaaripan
kee jagah le li thi, isne mujhe mere jeevan ke sabse rachnatmak samay mein
pravesh karne ke liye taiyaar kar diya .
Agle 5
saal ke dauraan, maine ek Next naam ki aur pixsar naam ki company company shuru
ki, aur ek Alghi aurat se mujhe pyar ho gaya, jo meri patni ban gayi. Pixar ne
duniya ki pahli animation film banayi Toy Story, aur jo ki ab duniya ki sabse
saphal animation studio hai. Kuch ghatnaon ki ek baari mein, Apple ne Next
coampany ko khareed liya, main laut kar Apple mein aaya, aur humne Next ke liye
jo bahut kuch taiyari ki thi ab usko ajmaane ka samay aa gaya tha.
Mujhe
pura yakeen hai ki agar main Apple se nahi nikaala jaata, to yah sab nahi hota.
Kabhi kabhi jeevan ek patar se tumhare sir mein chot karti hai vishvaas mat
khona mujhe vishvaas hai ki keval ek cheej ne mera saath diya, maine vahi kiya
jo mujhe pasand tha jo tumhe pasand hai vah tumhe khojna chahiye aur yah baat
jitni tumhare pyar krne waale ke liye sach hai utni hi tumhare kaam ke liye bhi
sach hai tumhara kaam tumhaare jeevan ka ek bada hissa hai, aur satisfy hone ka
ek maatr tarika hai vo hi kaam karo jo tumhe mahaan banaye aur mahaan kaam
karne ka ek hi tarika hai, tumhare kaam se tumhe pyaar ho.
Agar
aap ko abhi tak vah nahi mila hai, to tum paana chahte ho to thaali baithe mat
raho jaise dil ke sabhi maamlon mein hota hai, jab tumhe vah milega tumhe pata
chal jayega aur, kisi bhi achhe rishte ki tarah, jaise saal gujarte hai, yah
sirph behatar aur behtar hota jaata hai. Isi liye jab tak vah na mile dhundte
hee raho.
Meri Teesri Kahani Hai
Maut Ke Baare Mein
Jab
main 17 saal ka tha, maine ek example padha, vah kuch aisa tha: “Agar tum
jindagi ka har ek din aise jite ho jaise vah aakhari din hai, to kabhi to vah
sach hoga”. Yah vichaar mujh par chha gaya tha, aur tab se pichhale 33 saalo
se, har subh maine khud ko aaeene mein dekha karta tha aur apne aap se puchha
karta tha “Agar aaj meri jindagi ka aakhiri din hota, to kya main vahi karta jo
mai aaj karne vaala hun?” Aur jab bhi ek saath kayi dino tak javaab aaya
“Nahi”, mujhe pata hai ki mujhe kuch badalne ki jarurat hai.
Yaad
rakhna ki main jald hi mar jaane vaala, hu yah mujhe mila hua sabse important
upkaran hai jo jeevan ke bade prayogo mein se chunne ke liye meri madad karta
hai. Kyonki laagbhag sab kuch - baahari ummeeden, sabhi garv, haar ya sharm ya
dar - ye baaten maut ke saamne koi maayne nahi rakhti, jo asal mein important
hai keval vahi rahta hai jo tum kuch khone vaale ho yah soch ki jaal se bachne
ka sabse achcha tareeka hai yah yaad rakhna ki tum marne vaale ho tum pahle se
hi pata hai koi kaaran nahi hai jiske liye tum apne dil ki na suno.
Laagbhag
ek saal pahle mujhe cancer ke baare me bataya gaya tha. Maine subh 7:30 baje
scan karvaaya tha, aur usme spasht roop se mere pancreatic par ek tumor dikha.
Mujhe to pata hi nahi tha pancreatic kya tha. Doctors ne mujhe laagbhag
nishchit roop se bataya ki yah ek prakaar ka lailaaj cancer hai, aur yah ki
maine 3 mahine se 6 mahinon se jyada jeevit rahne kee ummeed nahi karni chayie.
Mere Doctar ne mujhe ghar jaane ki aur apne parivaar ke liye baad ki life ke
liye sab decide karne ki salaah dee ki unhe aage ki jindgi kaise guzarni hai,
jo ki marne ke liye taiyaar hone ka Doctor ka nirdesh hai.
Maine
us baare me sochte huye saara din guzaar diya aur baad mein us shaam mujh pe
Biopsy ki gayi, jaha unhone mere gale ke maadhyam se mere pet mein or meri
aanton mein endoscope daala, mere Pancreatitis mein ek suee daali aur tumor ki
Cells ko nikala. Main behosh tha, lekin meri patni ne, jo vahaan thi, mujhe
bataya ki jab unhone ek Microscope se neeche cells ko dekha, tab Doctor
rone lage kyonki vo jama hua tha ki vah ka Pancreatitis bahut muskil tha us
cancer ka sahi hona. jo ki Surgery se thik ho sakata hai. Meri Surgery ki gayi
aur main ab thik hu.
Yah
mera maut se mera sabse karibi saamna hua tha, is anubhav se gujarne ke baad,
ab mai aapko yah thodi adhik nishchit roop se kah sakta hu koi marna nahi
chaahta. Yahaan tak ki jo log swarg jaana chaahte hai ki vah bhi vahaan jaane
ke liye marna nahi chaahte aur fir bhi maut hi hum sab ka antim sthaan hai. Koi
bhi is se bacha nahi hai aur vah isi roop mein rahna chaahiye.
Tumhara
samay seemit hai , isliye kisi aur ka jeevan jeene mein vah waste mat karo.
Dusron ke vichaaron ke shor mein apni khud ki andar ki awaaj mat dubne do aur
sabse important baat apne dil ki suno kyoki hamara dil galat nahi sochta vo jo
kuch karta hai achche ke liye karata hai.
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